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Life coaching; a positive approach.

Life is not a rehearsal – this is it!

In life there are 'losers', 'non-winners' and 'winners'.

The 'losers' often look like big shots with huge goals but they are so big they can never attain them.

They set themselves up for a fall, always ending up feeling out of luck, a failure or an outsider.

The 'non-winners' dare not even presume to have a goal for fear of not achieving it.

They don't win or lose because they never 'play'.

They are often seen as reasonably successful from the outside, having followed the prescribed routes, but are usually deeply dissatisfied and know they are capable of much more.

Then there are 'winners' who really know themselves, set a target just fractionally beyond what they have already proved they can do and 'go for it', doing whatever they need to do to get it – 'winners'.

From this view it is easy to see how we can all be winners, living to our potentials, fulfilling our dreams, getting everything we want from life with our future all in with the plan.

There is every reason why this should be you, with a little guidance it can be.

Examples:

The condensed case studies outlined below may seem specific but even though they may not be directly relevant to you, you will get a sense of what I can offer.

  1. I have helped one client to recognised her values and strengths, which has given her the confidence to terminate her present unsatisfactory position as she has identified, found and switched to her ideal job.

  2. Another client needed to re-assess his values in terms of relationships and through identifying his own merits and strengths redefined his expectations in his partner. The result was he found someone who sent his confidence spiralling upward.

  3. A very successful client has worked with me to identify the aspects of his work he finds fulfilling and, by being clear on his personal values, has learnt to delegate effectively the areas he previously felt he had no choice but to fulfil himself.

  4. I have also had the pleasure of assisting a client to discern her social interests and in doing so facilitated in building her own supportive environment. This had the side effect of rekindling interest from her husband who began to see again 'the woman he married'.

  5. One client needed to see the social pressure that was keeping her in work that didn't satisfy her and, by becoming acquainted with her own internal values, has created a position at work that has resulted in her looking forward to her working week.

Add to these examples a small selection of the more specific things I can do for you.

  1. Focus on your unique qualities and reflect them back to you.
  2. Teach communication skills.
  3. Recognise strengths and bring them to the forefront.
  4. Make opportunities for growth out of obstacles.
  5. Create understanding of internal process.

To discuss ways in which we can improve you life please contact me to arrange an initial consultation.